The art of flirting is a timeless tradition, but can be a bit intimidating for first-timers, especially if you're trying to catch the eye of a girl at your school. The trick is to be subtle enough that you don't create an awkward situation for yourself at school if the girl isn't receptive, but still be confident and self-assured enough to let the girl you like know your intentions and make her interested in flirting right back with you.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
1 Mentally prepare yourself for approaching a girl by accepting she may reject your advances, but it won't be the worst thing in the world if she does. Preparing for rejection will make the flirting process less intimidating, as it lowers the stakes a bit.
2 Practice talking to other girls before trying to flirt with the object of your affection. Hanging out with a group of friends and trying out some jokes and compliments on girls you're already friends with will make you more comfortable spending time with females.
3 Begin flirting with the girl you like by making her laugh, as laughter is an easy aspect of flirting. Tell her a joke in between classes or tell her a funny anecdote during lunch. Don't think too much about it; just be yourself here.
4 Pay the girl a compliment once you've established a friendly relationship with her. The compliment doesn't have to be overt, just tell her you think her eyes are a pretty color or you think she has a nice smile.
5 Touch her subtly now and then. If you're walking with her to class, touch her arm to get her attention or give her a hug when you say goodbye. Avoid this contact if your school prohibits such touching and save any slight touching for times when you're off campus. Establishing some personal contact is key in flirting.
6 Establish a way to hang out outside of school. Arrange for some friends to go to a movie or a school basketball game, and at the gathering combine all of the techniques, focusing on making her laugh while paying her a few compliments and touching her arm or back now and then.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
1 Mentally prepare yourself for approaching a girl by accepting she may reject your advances, but it won't be the worst thing in the world if she does. Preparing for rejection will make the flirting process less intimidating, as it lowers the stakes a bit.2 Practice talking to other girls before trying to flirt with the object of your affection. Hanging out with a group of friends and trying out some jokes and compliments on girls you're already friends with will make you more comfortable spending time with females.
3 Begin flirting with the girl you like by making her laugh, as laughter is an easy aspect of flirting. Tell her a joke in between classes or tell her a funny anecdote during lunch. Don't think too much about it; just be yourself here.
4 Pay the girl a compliment once you've established a friendly relationship with her. The compliment doesn't have to be overt, just tell her you think her eyes are a pretty color or you think she has a nice smile.5 Touch her subtly now and then. If you're walking with her to class, touch her arm to get her attention or give her a hug when you say goodbye. Avoid this contact if your school prohibits such touching and save any slight touching for times when you're off campus. Establishing some personal contact is key in flirting.
6 Establish a way to hang out outside of school. Arrange for some friends to go to a movie or a school basketball game, and at the gathering combine all of the techniques, focusing on making her laugh while paying her a few compliments and touching her arm or back now and then.
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